February 2012
If you’re skinny, you’re skinny..if you’re fat, you’re fat…don’t get offended/mad when ppl give you these labels: either change it or embrace who you are/what you have
females kill me when they get upset if someone calls them skinny/fat…embrace that shit or stfu & find some way to improve it (i.e. gain weight or lose weight/make healthier...
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@jojomclovin
you’re welcome! peace & blessings to you & enjoy the journey!
@jojomclovin
it was just an “enlightenment” that all of a sudden hit me and I was thinking to myself: “why am I wasting my energy on this when I can save it for positive situations”….it takes a lot out of you when you give people power to upset you…just practicing how to tell yourself on being mindful of your emotions and how you can turn the negative into a positive was key...
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can’t blame others for “making” you do anything, you made the choice to give them the power to get to you…too often we are quick to blame others for “making” us mad/hurt/do “this”/do “that”/etc and instead fail to realize we should blame ourselves for even giving that power to someone to put us in that position…*think before you...
3 weeks of me "slippin"/"relapsing" from lack of...
= 6 weeks of going IN during my workouts in the gym…
this week (week #4) I’m trying to increase my time in the gym from 45 minutes to 1 hour and (possibly) 15 minutes 3 x a week
after a long & weird day at my internship...
I come home to my ready to use cassia treatment *le sigh*
made it “extra special” this a.m. before work so I can come to it ready to relax me
and it feels SOOOOOOOOOOO good
people say they don't understand why I'm so...
if they knew what size the women are in my family they would know why I’m trying to drop this 5 to 10 lbs before graduation….
I’m on a serious mission for a reason: MY HEALTH (both present & future)
fuck all that high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity bullshit…I’m trying to BREAK this damn cycle
In my (small ass) circle, no one is alike...
we dress different, we think different, we have different point of views, we come from different backgrounds…everything is different about us…
and I LOVE IT….I rather be surrounded by originals than be someone’s twin *shivers at the thought of having an extra me (lol)* I love being my own person and still have those who are close to me love me for me…flaws and all..
“I’m being more responsible during my weekdays to make up for my...”
– bestie/sis (lol)
@solovelyleann
yea I’m not saying that I think they were getting back together, I just stated she may begin a toxic cycle either personal (within herself) and/or business wise
my past experiences didn't make me the person I am...
it only taught me how listen, observe (which I do a lot of) & speak when something is needed to be said…
I may be quiet & reserved, but my mind, heart and spirit is loud & open…but I just protect them better today than I use to yesterday…
I don’t think that was a smart move for Rihanna to do that remix w/ Chris (plus the remix wasn’t as good as it’s hyped up to be) but it was her call/whoever’s call I guess…that’s my opinion…regardless of what happened in the past (not just that incident but during that whole relationship could have just been toxic because of both of them) w/ them no one...
ummmmm I have this feeling that chick Rita Ora is going to be that understudy that fills in for the main lead (Rihanna) while she’s “away/sick” and too many time’s she gets “sick” (messing up) they will tell the main lead “to take a break & enjoy life/explore the world on your own”….
*shrugs* because their style is too much alike (they...
found the new moves I can do in the gym….
and speaking of not feeling sore…I spoke too soon lol
I need to step up my workout game….I’m not feeling sore any more later on in the day or the day after I come from the gym…not trying to say I need to feel like I’m about to drop but I’m not feeling it in my body like I use to….
*begins research*
“You have to do what’s best for you…stop depending on your hopes...”
– my bestie/sis
@shitrodsays
lol sad thing is, that’s why :-( I really liked it too because it was a bright blue skirt I’ve been looking for but never had a chance to wear it smh
sad that my blue mini skirt doesn't fit me any...
*le sigh* I should have known my bottom isn’t a medium…was a little too hopeful…
co-wash day...
my hair definitely needs it
@weirdnessss
thank you, me too! I’ve always wanted to go there and whenever I get the chance I’m taking it
Random thought...
I want to color my hair red & travel to India…
*one day* = it’s on my bucket list
"When certain people bring nothing but drama to...
- Ms. Tasha (mom # 2)
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-_- at these black magazines saying majority of...
who tf did they survey because I can count on ONE HAND the black guys I know who prefer/are attracted to women w/ natural hair and actually don’t criticize about a woman’s hair being natural
mariyatroi:
White women on the natural hair tag…
lmao
got a crazy craving for some pineapples
*continues to crush this whole bowl of this delicious fruit*
*big ass exhale*
finally have my “party” outfits :-)
now that’s complete (which one of the outfits I have will probably change next week..not sure about this one), I can get together just regular casual outfits when I need to pack…
I feel so violated :-(
I’ve been pricked and probed (literally) to run tests on my health….
I’m always nervous about the results because you never know…
I deserve a break/treat/retail therapy w/ some thrifting *le sigh*
I wonder if my generation truly understands what really is a Godparent or what choosing Godparents really means?
because it seems like people do it as a “trend” and don’t understand what the responsibilities are other than buying gifts/spoiling the child/children…that’s not a requirement, that’s a luxury…
smh
got my dr.'s appointment today....
I always get nervous before dr.’s appointments :-/
*le sigh* hoping all goes well
I feel SO much better about my decision after that talk this a.m….it’s like a weight has been lifted off of my spirit but some how my spirit is confused on what to do lol…
it’s (my spirit) been held down and “smothered” for so long with being persuaded by outside opinions/decisions about my happiness in my professional life and not being able to truly be free...